tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729691681948373476.post2724809816933333839..comments2023-11-03T07:41:21.677-04:00Comments on In the Land of Broken Hearts: All That We Let InVirginiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07965042538225388563noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729691681948373476.post-58645572585646302972009-03-16T10:06:00.000-04:002009-03-16T10:06:00.000-04:00Mm. Maybe I should clarify, Monica. If it were bet...Mm. Maybe I should clarify, Monica. If it were between Ben never having existed, and having to go through what I went through, I'd choose having him, any day. I don't mean doing it all again in a future sense - those days are past for me, sadly. <BR/><BR/>I'm not sure I make sense, but I get what you're saying. One day this will be past for you, too, and you WILL be holding a baby in your arms.Virginiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07965042538225388563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729691681948373476.post-69902544935143156402009-03-15T21:47:00.000-04:002009-03-15T21:47:00.000-04:00I think I'm a better person for having Sam and Jac...I think I'm a better person for having Sam and Jack as well but would I do it all over again??? <BR/><BR/>You know that saying "It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all" really applies here. If this was the only way for me to have known and loved them then I'd do it all over again, but to keep trying and know that the past can repeat itself is a risk. I have to take the risk but I don't want to go through this again. I just can't...<BR/><BR/>Okay, I went off on a mini tangent there. My favorite song of the moment is "Chicken Fried" from the Zac Brown Band- it's just fun and it makes me want to dance (and I DON'T dance) :-) and of course there's always James Taylor...love him!Monica Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14767867041043811045noreply@blogger.com