tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729691681948373476.post2768210799329430445..comments2023-11-03T07:41:21.677-04:00Comments on In the Land of Broken Hearts: The Loneliest NumberVirginiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07965042538225388563noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729691681948373476.post-45878917155200968792009-11-19T15:15:42.130-05:002009-11-19T15:15:42.130-05:00Wow - what a beautiful post. I am in tears. My so...Wow - what a beautiful post. I am in tears. My son was born in 2003 and I feel for you. My deepest fear is losing one of my children - and I think that's why we as a society don't talk about children dying very often. Know that you are not alone. I hope that writing this blog is healing for you and for the other mothers who read it. God bless you.Tristahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06308388473864912872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729691681948373476.post-49998865162947646212009-09-09T01:41:46.239-04:002009-09-09T01:41:46.239-04:00You are right where you need to be. Never under e...You are right where you need to be. Never under estimate yourself. You had that baby with you for 9 months before anyone else knew who Ben was. i don't think as mothers we can ever let go of any of our kids, much ,less the ones that are no longer with us. Janet(mother of Tracie..Forever)Janetnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729691681948373476.post-23411647114013022102009-09-06T22:29:43.115-04:002009-09-06T22:29:43.115-04:00I think we'll miss them forever and are always...I think we'll miss them forever and are always keenly aware of what should have been. We carry that with us now and that can be a heavy load.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5729691681948373476.post-36252118814569574152009-08-31T00:21:40.049-04:002009-08-31T00:21:40.049-04:00I don't think every other time you think of an...I don't think every other time you think of and miss Ben will be like last Thurday. I also don't think that you can control how those dates affect you either. Some days are certainly better than others, but as you know the days that we remember can be really difficult. <br /><br />I don't know how I will be in 2 years when Sam should be going to Kindergarten. I don't know if I'll remember, but I'm quite positive that there will be days that I remember and long for him more than my husband does and that's okay. You as a mother miss your son, and that's all you're doing--missing your son.Monica Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14767867041043811045noreply@blogger.com